WTF Is Social Media

What the fuck is social media? WTF does beauty stand for in social media?
Let me break down a few of my thoughts toward beauty. If you ever glance at my photos on Insta or Facebook, I am speaking from my perception behind it.

Beauty is something that stems from the inside out. My beliefs that social media and or society call imperfections are the most beautiful attributes that truly show our individuality. Those imperfections are what make us beautiful. Freckles, gap’s in teeth, the friend that snorts when she laughs. That is sexy.

Beauty comes from the inside out. When someone is not afraid to be who they are, authentic and just really lives on their own in their skin.

Living in their skin, (I truly love that)
I know within myself, I have noticed from doing photoshoots, in the beginning, I was so hesitant about acting natural. My thoughts were, “what do I do? Just strike a pose?”
I notice when I started getting my photography back, that the ones that I’m not giving a fuck about, and I’m laughing hysterically, or I’m acting like an idiot, those are the best captions. Those are the best pictures that come out.

I think that’s telling society and everybody else that just being yourself is fucking beautiful. To laugh and snort at the same time, because that’s who you are. That’s beautiful. To have a flaw or have a birthmark, or a gap in your teeth. True Beauty..

Do you know how many sexy ass women are models that have their gap in their teeth? My thoughts to myself are, you’re fucking hot. You idealize that look … like “I want to look like that.”
What inspires women? A woman that is not perfect that is sexy.

This is the thing…..
When people meet an athlete or Someone who is physically fit in real life compared to there picture on social media or a magazine. You realize they are real people. lol. They do have a little bit of cellulite, they are not perfect.

Do not be afraid to be vulnerable.
When you allow yourself to be vulnerable, you allow yourself to be seen for you.
I truly admire listening to the real vulnerability with people that I look up to.
To watch them own their behavior such as “Hey, I’m having a fucking shitty day. I’m not perfect.” Or, “I ate 24 dozen chocolate chip cookies …” Whatever their uncomfortable is, and them pointing that out.
It makes us all feel normal and honestly, we all feel this way it is about being truthful and owning your shit.

It is huge for us as a society because we all have this misconception of what we should be acting or portraying, especially as females.

What is false reality around beauty? Having or thinking you need to be physically perfect.

What is my concept of what beauty stands for?
Beauty is brains. A strong independent woman confident in any size, any color, any flaw but seriously owning her shit. if you walk into a room with your head high, confident about who you are and do not care about any other opinions. That is sexy.

“Okay, what the fuck is beauty?” Right?

A breakthrough to allowing yourself to get comfortable in you.
You finding freedom in your beauty in all the places you didn’t think you would, and things within your self.

It’s true.
I think through all the turmoil that I’ve been through in my life, now in my 40’s. I’m to the point where I really couldn’t give a fuck anymore.
When you can let that stigma go of what others think of you go. That is sexy.

Be uncomfortably You.